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Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Do i hold on...

There are times when we are faced with a very difficult choice - a truth that hurts or a lie that heals. Do we hold on to an illusion or let go to fall back on reality? Often, we choose to hold on with a hope of the illusion forming our reality. But many a times, holding on only leads us into a greater mess. So, when I am faced with this dilemma, what do i do? Do I hold on? Or do I let go?
I have learnt from one of the best teachers - life. And a hard learnt lesson is that the truth, however bitter, always wins out. Lies, even if they are only white lies, are bound to lose in the long run. So, make the right choice and make it count. Let go of what you know is not going to work out. It will be very hard to, I promise, but I also promise you will not regret it later. Remember, even good things fall apart, but only so that better things can fall into place.
Take up every opportunity, let go of what you have been holding on to for so long, take a few chances and you might just realize this was what you really wanted! If someone really belongs with you, don't hold them too close. Give them their space and at times, let go. Watch them come back to you and know that this is love. <3